Do Gentlemen Really Prefer Blondes?: Bodies, Behavior, and Brains--The Science Behind Sex, Love, & Attraction
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How do the seasons affect your sex life? Is your lover more likely to get you pregnant than your husband? Are good dancers also good in bed?
If you've ever wondered how scientists measure love--or whether men really prefer blondes--this smart, sexy book provides real answers to these and many other questions about our most baffling dating and mating behaviors. Based on the latest research in biology, evolutionary psychology, neuroscience, and cognitive science, Do Gentlemen Really Prefer Blondes? dares to explain the science behind sex--and opens a fascinating window on the intriguing phenomenon of love and attraction. Did you know...
*When a couple first fall in love, their brains are indistinguishable from those of the clinically insane
*You can tell a lot about a person's sexual chemistry just by looking at his or her hands *Your genes influence whose body odors you prefer
Viewed through the lens of science and instinct, your love life might be seen in a completely different way. This book provides both an in-depth exploration into our sexual psyches--and fresh advice for men and women who want to discover the secrets of successful relationships.
Antoine was sent to approach young women on the street. His assignment was to tell each one he thought she was pretty and ask her for her phone number for a future date. Again, he touched half the women as he made his request. As startling and creepy as Antoine’s approach sounds, more than 19 percent of the women he touched gave him their numbers, compared to only 10 percent of the women with whom no physical contact was made. A female experimenter then approached the women Antoine hit on and
elsewhere on the body. When a chimp is in heat, it’s her butt cheeks that turn bright red. * * * Why does mimicry make you more likable? * * * Think back to a date that went well—how natural the interaction was, how in tune you felt. Only if you were very self-aware would you have caught yourself mimicking your date’s accent, tone, pauses, even his catchphrases. You also might’ve been mirroring his body language—your elbows on your knees, with the same lip-biting little smile. And
physical details such as looks and height. The researchers used a simulation to predict outcomes for various scenarios. Based on dating patterns, if a guy’s physical appearance is rated among the least attractive 10 percent of men on the site, he’d need to make an additional $186,000 each year to be considered equally desirable to a great-looking stud with an average income of $62,500. If a man is only five feet six inches tall, he’d need to make an additional $175,000 to be as desirable as a
ranked somewhere in the middle. Undergraduate women considered it less important than kindness, handsomeness, and healthiness, but more important than good heredity and (ironically) being a college graduate. Then again, it’s no shock that American college students value creativity given that they live in a culture that gives high status, at least in theory, to artists, entertainers, and entrepreneurs. However, when nearly eighty middle-class, middle-aged Americans were asked how much they value
see all the time are young, attractive, doting babes, it’s a problem. No matter how pretty you are, the constant comparisons don’t work in your favor. It was just a worldlier woman’s well-intentioned advice, but it may turn out to have a grain of truth to it. It’s now known, for instance, that male high school teachers and professors have suspiciously high divorce rates, whereas male kindergarten teachers tend to be monogamous. Psychologists Douglas Kenrick and Sara Gutierres at Arizona State